Listening to People..

U know at times... what is the hardest?
hmm..i think its listening to what others have to say..

if its good and warranted.. its called advise
when its not so good good but still make sense its call feedback..
but when its not good, makes no sense..its criticism.. right?

how do you know when to listen to others, when to shut it out?

When u stop listening, u are seem to be a proud; stuck-up bitch/person etc..
but does it mean when u listen to every advise u're not a proud person too? I've heard people who proudly claim to listen to every advise given.. imagine that!

does being a good listener mean u're a great guy/gal? I don't think so.. becoz empathy is a great gift.. but there some poor souls that aren't able to shut out from listening to others ; or worst still ...can't tell the difference between good advise or poor ones...maybe sometimes it not the advise..but the person who gives it might have other motives..oh well.. we're not angels ourselves aren't we?

its never possible to aplease everyone. u only succed in making others miserable including yourself in the long run..

i'm a person who enjoys blessing others.. but yes, sometimes I do feel the bug that i'm cheap labour or being taken advantage of.. but i guess..that in some ways is me reaping and living a lifestyle that i hopes would honour God more. When I feel like crap .. i know its only becoz I'm seeing what is tangiable infront of me.. what I can't see..my treasures will be many folds over.

i guess we all have our filters to protect us.. but do check your filters regurlarly.. it may be discrimination.. or it may also something wonderful that protects you and gives u the 'winners' mentality..

Cheers.