Becoz love,

is patient; that is what I always waited to hear from you not others,
is kind; that is why I bother to make the effort to say hello,
doesn't boast, that is why I kept away from others,
is not rude, unlike others who have been back-stabbing for their own advantage,
is not self-seeking, that is why I said you could leave to own your faith,
is not easily angered, even when I see what promises becomes 'nought,
keeps no record of wrongs, I've a treasure full of beautiful experiences only..
does not delight in evil, I keep you in my prayer each night..
rejoices with the truth, you're growing as a person.

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always.."

Seems, that a love nutured over 4 years can be removed or replace in less than a quarter of its time, then I know you would have greatest of diffculty of loving me for the person I'm, was and can be. If you need to love a person for who he/ she can be for you; such as company, shared interest etc.. that is might fine, but the anchor of your affection would be what the person can provide for you. The loving feeling the person can give you and you can feel for the person. The committment of love is a by-product for months and years of being together, until a decision becomes, marriage or break-up.. But the question remains; could you love the person for the person; as how Christ loves us.
Christ loves us even when we're sinners. When we've gone astray from him for years ... when we mock him.. when anger him. True love isn't loving just the act or the provision of the person, but a deep committment and order to respect; honour; cherish; and be with the person; come what may.

Exactly becoz I love the person, I said yes for her to go. Becoz, there is love, I stay away from her. In the love I undertstand, I pray for her still; regardless if she feels anything more for me. Love isn't possession. Its not asking for a return. My love understands that God loves her more than me. Cherishes her more than I can ever have.

Love is a very natural extension of a relationship of love between man and God.